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Creating an Open-door Policy When There Are No Doors
Building trust requires moving beyond passive approaches to engagement.

John has a trust problem.
He thrived in a traditional office and maintained a relaxed, “open-door” policy. He even stocked a candy jar full of gummies to lure in chatty team members. But when he became CEO of a fully remote organization, everything changed. No desk. No gummies. No casual drop-ins. And suddenly, no connection.
Reality check: An open-door policy doesn’t work when there are no doors.
As we have come to realize, remote work is different. Trust is built—and lost—differently. Without the passive cues of a physical space, leadership and teamwork must be intentional. A closed door signals “busy,” while an open one invites conversation. But in a virtual workplace, no cues mean people often assume the worst: the door is closed.
When coworkers can’t rely on informal, spontaneous interactions to ask questions or share ideas, communication stalls. Over time, team members feel overlooked and unimportant.
And here's the kicker: leaders like John rarely realize it’s happening. They don’t see how a curt text or distracted video call can send a message of unavailability. In a world without doors, silence feels like rejection.
Trust in a remote setting must be built on purpose:
Regular, predictable check-ins
Feedback conversations after every project—positive and negative
Meetings with buffer time for questions and pushback
Opportunities for casual chit-chat before or after formal meetings
Designated “office hours” or virtual co-working video sessions for spontaneous connection
Without structure, it’s easy for employees to think: “My leader is too busy for me.”
One of the most powerful ways to build trust from a distance is to create predictable moments of access. And who knows—maybe throw in a few virtual gummies while you’re at it.
Dr. Peggy Kendall has been a professor of Communication Studies for over 20 years. Consulting, training, and coaching remote leaders has made her painfully aware of how communication is disrupted in online work environments. Trust at a Distance: 6 Strategies for Managing in the Remote Workplace is co-authored with trust expert David Horsager and will be released by Berrett-Koehler in November, 2025. For more information on how your organization can open more virtual doors, visit www.peggykendall.com | ![]() |

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