Feeling stuck in your remote work journey? You're not alone. 

This issue dives into the art of designing a life that thrives—not just survives—when working from anywhere. 

We'll unpack practical strategies to reignite your motivation, break through creative barriers, and transform your independent work life from mundane to extraordinary.

— Ric, Shellie, Darcy & Will

INSPIRATION

How to Design A Remote Life You Love

“Feeling Stuck? How to Reclaim Your Motivation and Design a Remote Life You Love"

Have you ever felt like no matter what you do, nothing will change? Like no matter how many to-do lists you write, you’re still standing in the same place?

I know that feeling.

For remote workers, this sense of helplessness can creep in quietly—masked by freedom (and the guilt that comes with it). But what if I told you that you can break free?

There’s a name for this: learned helplessness—the belief that your actions don’t matter, born from setbacks that leave you feeling powerless.

But here’s the truth: You’re not powerless.

Motivation doesn’t just happen—it’s something you design for. And the good news is, even if it feels impossible right now, you can start taking small, intentional steps to shift your energy.

Create Boundaries to Reclaim Control

The first step? Separate work from life.

For me, having an office door to physically close is a game-changer. But I’ve also worked remotely in a 350 sq. ft. home with two people and a 65 lb. Golden Retriever—so I get it. My solution? A DIY Murphy desk nailed to the wall.

Get creative. You got this.

Get Dressed and Show Up for Yourself

Put on real clothes, even if no one will see you.

It’s a simple but powerful signal: I’m showing up for me today.

And if you hate hard pants like me? Get some easy-wear you love and look fly in. Bonus: you’ll be ready to move.

Move to Spark Momentum

When you’re stuck, your mind is the worst place to start—get your wiggles out.

Our bodies hold our emotions. Move them, and you move your energy.

For me, ClassPass helps. If I don’t show up, I get charged $17. It’s just enough pain to keep me accountable.

And no, nothing will explode if you step away from Slack for an hour. Promise.

You’re Not Stuck—You’re Starting

Designing your life is hard work.

But the hardest part? Taking that first step.

So, what’s your step today? Let us know!

QUICK TAKES

Keep the Spark Alive

✅ Flexibility is key to fostering the creative workflow

✅ How To Stay Motivated Working From Home

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LAST WEEK’S POLL RESULTS

When working remotely, what ignites your inner fire and keeps you pushing forward?

THE VIBE

News to Use

💡 Savoring Enjoyment – Increase happiness in daily activities

💡 Norway is inviting remote workers for a free spring retreat

💡 Solving the Trust Gap in Remote Work

💡 'Third spaces' are a key to fighting the loneliness crisis

POLL – NEXT WEEKS TOPIC

Next week we’ll explore strategic solitude and how it can enhance focus, creativity, and personal well-being in ways that a bustling office environment simply can't match.

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Don’t Wait for Motivation – Create It

When the world shut down in 2020—offices empty, routines shattered, uncertainty hanging thick in the air—I had an excuse to sit still, waiting for motivation to show up. 

But waiting doesn’t work.

It would be great if inspiration struck like lightning. 

But I found it’s more like my first car— you have to start pushing before the engine kicks in. So, I pushed. I launched my own business in the middle of the chaos, not because I had it all figured out, but because doing something felt better than doing nothing.

One of the first things I realized was that I needed people—real conversations, shared energy, the kind of accountability that can’t be replaced by a podcast or a self-help book. 

I started my own mastermind. A small, hand-picked group of like-minded professionals who, like me, weren’t willing to let isolation define their lives. We met online, swapped ideas, challenged each other, and—maybe most importantly—reminded one another why we connected in the first place. 

They became a lifeline.

But even with the right people in my corner, some days motivation felt miles away. 

That’s when I learned the most important lesson: action creates motivation, not the other way around. I stopped waiting for the spark and started moving—writing one email, drafting one idea, reaching out to one new connection. 

Small actions led to bigger momentum, and before I knew it, I wasn’t forcing myself to move forward—I wanted to.

And when my mind felt stuck? I moved my body. 

A walk, a stretch, anything to shake loose the mental fog. I learned that inspiration rarely strikes while staring at a screen, but it shows up when you step away, when you change your scenery, when you let movement untangle your thoughts.

Looking back, I didn’t find motivation—I built it. 

And that’s the thing about momentum. You don’t have to wait for it. You can create it.

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The Week Ahead!

Remote workers, buckle up for a wild ride of connection and creativity! 

From co-working with free drinks in Research Triangle Park to jazzy billiards in Philly, we've got your networking and fun mapped out. 

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