šŸ‚ October — Letting It Fall Away

Why Holding On Tighter Isn't Keeping You Safe—It's Keeping You Stuck

In a world that rewards constant productivity, autumn invites a different kind of rhythm, one that values release as much as creation.

For remote professionals—especially those of us designing lives outside traditional structures—this season becomes a gentle teacher in the art of aligned living.

🌾 The Lesson of Letting Go

We often hold onto roles, responsibilities, or identities that once served us:
a familiar work rhythm, a way of showing up for others, or a belief about what ā€œsuccessā€ should look like.

But as Jon Kabat-Zinn reminds us,

ā€œIt’s all a part of the curriculum.ā€

Every cycle of holding on and letting go is an essential lesson in becoming more resourced, rooted, and alive.

šŸ’­ A Personal Reflection

In my own journey, I’ve noticed how tightly I was holding onto certain ways of working in my business—seeking a sense of safety and control, even as I sensed that new opportunities were waiting to unfold.

As I’ve practiced loosening my grip and allowing what no longer fits to fall away, I’ve discovered something unexpected underneath:
✨ deeper connections
✨ renewed energy
✨ greater clarity
✨ more space to create in ways that feel truly aligned

šŸ’Ÿ A Shared Story

This theme echoed beautifully during the AVL Digital Nomads’ October Leadership on Tap Meetup — ā€œLeading with Heart: The Power (and Peril) of Vulnerability.ā€

The speaker, Andi Graham, shared her experience of powering through intense emotions and challenges in the days following Hurricane Helene—showing up confident and strong for her company and team.

In hindsight, she reflected on how she might have allowed a little more tenderness and care for herself and her family in that moment.

Her story was a powerful reminder that letting go isn’t just about releasing tasks or identities—it’s about softening the ways we hold ourselves.

When we loosen the need to perform or push through, we create space for something more honest, human, and sustainable to emerge.

šŸŒ¬ļø Practice: The ā€œLeaf Dropā€

Take ten mindful minutes—maybe between meetings or just after closing your laptop for the day.

  1. Sit comfortably and feel your feet connect with the ground.

  2. Bring to mind a role, responsibility, or belief that feels heavy or outdated.

  3. Imagine it as a leaf on your energetic tree—ready to release.

  4. Take 10 full breaths. With each exhale, visualize it drifting gently to the earth.

🌿 Trust that in letting it go, you’re creating space for what’s next to be nourished.

šŸ•Šļø Remember

Rest, reflection, and release aren’t detours from the path—
they are the path.

As we navigate our work and wellbeing this month, may we feel supported in the flow of life and resourced from within.

✨ Call to Action

Ready to release what no longer fits?
Create space for aligned living at ActivXchange.

Becca Marshall, founder of ActivXchange, supports conscious leaders, seekers, and guides on transformative journeys of healing, growth, and expansion. As an integrative Psychotherapist, psychedelic integration guide, and aligned living coach, she empowers clients to deepen connections with inner wisdom while cultivating balanced, intentional lives. Outside of work, she enjoys travel & foodie adventures, waterfall hikes, and Cavalier cuddles.

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