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š October ā Letting It Fall Away
Why Holding On Tighter Isn't Keeping You SafeāIt's Keeping You Stuck

In a world that rewards constant productivity, autumn invites a different kind of rhythm, one that values release as much as creation.
For remote professionalsāespecially those of us designing lives outside traditional structuresāthis season becomes a gentle teacher in the art of aligned living.
š¾ The Lesson of Letting Go
We often hold onto roles, responsibilities, or identities that once served us:
a familiar work rhythm, a way of showing up for others, or a belief about what āsuccessā should look like.
But as Jon Kabat-Zinn reminds us,
āItās all a part of the curriculum.ā
Every cycle of holding on and letting go is an essential lesson in becoming more resourced, rooted, and alive.
š A Personal Reflection
In my own journey, Iāve noticed how tightly I was holding onto certain ways of working in my businessāseeking a sense of safety and control, even as I sensed that new opportunities were waiting to unfold.
As Iāve practiced loosening my grip and allowing what no longer fits to fall away, Iāve discovered something unexpected underneath:
⨠deeper connections
⨠renewed energy
⨠greater clarity
⨠more space to create in ways that feel truly aligned
This theme echoed beautifully during the AVL Digital Nomadsā October Leadership on Tap Meetup ā āLeading with Heart: The Power (and Peril) of Vulnerability.ā
The speaker, Andi Graham, shared her experience of powering through intense emotions and challenges in the days following Hurricane Heleneāshowing up confident and strong for her company and team.
In hindsight, she reflected on how she might have allowed a little more tenderness and care for herself and her family in that moment.
Her story was a powerful reminder that letting go isnāt just about releasing tasks or identitiesāitās about softening the ways we hold ourselves.
When we loosen the need to perform or push through, we create space for something more honest, human, and sustainable to emerge.
š¬ļø Practice: The āLeaf Dropā
Take ten mindful minutesāmaybe between meetings or just after closing your laptop for the day.
Sit comfortably and feel your feet connect with the ground.
Bring to mind a role, responsibility, or belief that feels heavy or outdated.
Imagine it as a leaf on your energetic treeāready to release.
Take 10 full breaths. With each exhale, visualize it drifting gently to the earth.
šæ Trust that in letting it go, youāre creating space for whatās next to be nourished.
šļø Remember
Rest, reflection, and release arenāt detours from the pathā
they are the path.
As we navigate our work and wellbeing this month, may we feel supported in the flow of life and resourced from within.
⨠Call to Action
Ready to release what no longer fits?
Create space for aligned living at ActivXchange.
Becca Marshall, founder of ActivXchange, supports conscious leaders, seekers, and guides on transformative journeys of healing, growth, and expansion. As an integrative Psychotherapist, psychedelic integration guide, and aligned living coach, she empowers clients to deepen connections with inner wisdom while cultivating balanced, intentional lives. Outside of work, she enjoys travel & foodie adventures, waterfall hikes, and Cavalier cuddles. | ![]() |

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