Why In-Person Still Wins

In today’s digitally driven landscape, artificial intelligence promises efficiency and productivity. Yet one truth keeps holding: human connection, and intentionally designed in-person moments, still win.

As teams become more distributed, return-to-office mandates often miss the point and fail to restore genuine connection. People may be in the same building, but not necessarily with the right people, at the right moments, for the right reasons.

The Gathering Advantage 

Connection is now a strategic necessity as a retention and performance lever. And In-person moments are no longer nice-to-haves, but critical to engagement, belonging, and team effectiveness.

Dropbox’s research found 86% of employees say gathering in person has a meaningful impact on their team working together effectively. Atlassian found that quarterly in-person team gatherings boost team engagement by 27%, with positive effects lasting up to five months, particularly for new team members. → Read my Connection by Design story here.

Making it Memorable

The essence of meaningful human connection is intentional design. Here are our 5 golden rules to make in-person time effective: 

  1. Maximize Impact
    Start with purpose. Clearly define your why, then build your experience from there. Be intentional. Clarity of purpose drives everything else: who attends, how long you gather, what gets designed into the experience. Design for outcomes, and measure impact.

  2. Anchor the Cadence
    Choose your rhythm (quarterly, biannual, annual). Put dates on the calendar early, plan ahead and protect these moments as a strategic culture cadence.

  3. The 20/30/50 Rule
    Create a few high-quality containers, then protect freedom. Use Chase Warrington’s (Doist) 20/30/50 as a guide: 20% work, 30% activities, 50% free time. That 50 is where trust forms. Avoid the biggest trap: trying to fit too much into the agenda and leaving people exhausted.

  4. Guided Autonomy
    Invest in shared anchor moments (openings, meals, closings), then design for choice. Be inclusive. Offer options across energy levels. Make opting out normal. Build for introverts and extroverts. Belonging comes from autonomy and psychological safety.

  5. Design Culture Year-Round
    Go beyond one-off retreats. Real impact comes from designing connection year-round. Culture change happens when pivotal in-person moments are reinforced through ongoing initiatives that reinforce them over time. At Nomad Pass, we call these Culture Moments That Matter, the year-round rituals and gatherings that unlock alignment, engagement, and genuine human connection. 

Maria Scarzella Thorpe is a Workplace Culture Strategist and Experience Designer. As Founder of Nomad Pass, she helps remote and hybrid teams thrive through intentional culture design and impactful retreats. With 10+ years of global experience, she bridges human connection, mental fitness, and future-of-work strategies to build resilient, engaged teams across distributed work environments.

Discover how Nomad Pass supports teams through fractional culture work and team retreats here. Don’t forget Thrive readers get a free culture consultation + 20% off 2026 retreats (code Thrive).

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