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Developing personal and professional relationships helps locationāindependent professionals protect their mental health, do better work, and unlock more opportunities
Thrive Remotely is your weekly inspiration to leverage remote work to be your advantage, not your challenge.
Hey friend,
You chose remote work for freedom.
What no one warned you about? How easy it is to accidentally ghost the rest of humanity.
One minute youāre living your best life.
The next, your closest coworker is your laptop and your āsocial planā is a podcast.
This issue isnāt about networking or forced small talk.
Itās about real friendships. The kind that protect your mental health, make work better, and turn a location-independent life into something that actually feels full.
Connection doesnāt just happen when you work remotely.
It has to be built⦠intentionally, imperfectly, and sometimes a little awkwardly.
Letās make friends on purpose.
ā Ric & Shellie
P.S. Know someone who works remotely and could use more real humans in their life? Share this with them. šš¼

EXPAND FRIENDSHIPS
Designing a Remote Life You Love: How to Make Friends
By Darcy Marie Mayfield
Waiting for friends to magically appear in your remote life? That's the plan that fails.
Treating connection like essential infrastructure changes everything. Your brain literally needs it. But here's the thing: the strategy isn't complicated, it's just wildly intentional.
The secret to showing up first (and why overthinking kills friendship before it starts) might surprise you.

QUICK TAKES

LAST WEEKāS POLL RESULTS
How do you approach making friends as a remote professional?

āMeetup has been really great to reference, meeting small groups of people with similar interests. I've recently relocated to a new city and I'm remote, so the best way for me has been to meet a few folks and then ask them to play games like darts, cards, etc while out at a bar or something. Games are great ice breakers, even for adult friendships!ā

EXPAND FRIENDSHIPS
Making Friends, Without Making It Weird
By Bonnie Yunt
Comfort turned into isolation faster than Bonnie expected. Working remotely made postponing connection dangerously easy.
Her solution? A simple monthly commitment that changed everything. Connection is a muscle that gets stronger with use.
The twice-a-month rule she follows (and why being the one who sends the invite matters more than you think) might be exactly what you need.
PODCAST
How Remote Work Changes EverythingāIf You Let It
You've got the freedom. So why do you still feel guilty about using it? Serendipity engineer Darcy Mayfield breaks down the four stages of remote life design and why "learned helplessness" keeps you trapped in office thinking. Spoiler: recreating your cubicle at home isn't the move. | ![]() |

This Weekās Partner
The best HR advice comes from those in the trenches. Thatās what this is: real-world HR insights delivered in a newsletter from Hebba Youssef, a Chief People Officer whoās been there. Practical, real strategies with a dash of humor. Because HR shouldnāt be thanklessāand you shouldnāt be alone in it.
MEME OF THE WEEK


THE VIBE
News to Use
š How Remote Work Exposed Weaknesses In Corporate Leadership. The future of work is not about where people sit. It is about being effective and supportive leaders, regardless of location.
š Three Skills to Make Work More Meaningful in 2026. The surprising ingredients that keep motivation alive after resolutions fade.

POLL ā NEXT WEEKS TOPIC
Next week: Use 2026 to intentionally ādesign for travelā by baking trips into their calendar, workload, and budget instead of waiting for free time to appear.
How will you design for travel in 2026? |

COMMUNITY CALENDAR
Your Friendship Lab Awaits
Remember that "friendship project" we mentioned? Here's your experiment schedule.
Taprooms in Wilmington. Ski slopes in Maggie Valley. AI nerds in Asheville. Coworking everywhere else.
Real humans. Real conversations. Real friends who actually understand why you're working from a coffee shop at noon on a Tuesday.
Pick one. Show up. Repeat.

RESOURCES
š„ļø Workspaces : Discover workspaces that inspire productivity
ā Curse and Coffee : Opinionated world news that respects your time. One bold take, the best counter, and the receipt that proves it ā in six minutes.
š Revenue Memo : A newsletter that unpacks how great companies make money

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